Mistress Haven

Professional Transvestite Dominatrix

Pigeon Holes


Hello Everyone,

It has been a while since I last wrote a Blog. Quite simply I really have nothing of any merit to write about.

I tend to not really write any old bollocks on a Blog, because if that’s your thing then there’s plenty to cater for your need.

So today, I’ve decided to write something personal with a bit of depth, because if you’re like me you crave to read something ‘Real’ and not just sensationalist rubbish to inflict on the masses.

Here we go…

Over the past 5 years, I’ve had the pleasure of experiencing the KINK scene and all that it offers. I have had many memorable experiences travelling up and down the country getting to know people and understanding the different psyches of the ‘Kinkster’.

One thing I’ve noticed is that there seems to be a massive fuss over putting yourself into a certain Pigeon Hole, so you can be identified as a certain type of Kinkster/Gender/Sexual Persuasion.

I really hate pigeonholes; people constantly ask me if I’m TS/TV or Cross-dresser? My reply usually is ‘Fuck Knows’. I don’t mean to be rude to those that ask, its just I really don’t like to be stamped with a certain kind of Label.

Within the Scene there are people who get massively hung up with being labelled as a certain kind of person, heaven forbid if I mistakenly call a girl a sissy because she’s wearing a Maids dress and she’s actually a TS.

When I think of Labels and how much I detest them, it makes me think of Hitler. There’s a Guy who knew his Labels and how to segregate everyone into certain categories. Its awful, in a world where communities are trying to come together and accept one another, why are we so keen to drive divisions between us, with Labels?

This brings me to myself…

I, like you are totally unique. I am not dominant and I am not submissive. I am not a Cross dresser nor am I a TS/TV.

I like giving out punishments to my slaves, however I enjoy just as much receiving punishments at times.

Sometimes I like to live like a Lady and sometimes I like being a Lager drinking Lad.  

So the point to this Blog is thus:

Be who you are and love who you are, stop obsessing with labels and actually obsess about getting knee deep in fun.

You only live once, and for me. I intend to be as Filthy as possible (without tags).

Keep it Kinky.


Ms Haven xxx



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